Listen, I get it.
After my own toxic marriage ended, the last thing I wanted was to slap on a smile and swipe through dating apps like nothing happened.

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But here’s what I realized:

It’s not about getting back out there.
It’s about getting back to yourself.

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Because here’s the truth most men never hear:

You’re not broken. You’re not “too much” or “not enough.”
You were just wired to lead, fix, and protect—and someone used those strengths against you.

 

Toxic people don’t go after the weak.
They go after the strong. The selfless. The ones who try to do the right thing, no matter how much it costs them.
 

There is nothing wrong with you—but there is something keeping you stuck.

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You’re still operating from the version of you that had to survive.
The one who learned to keep the peace, stay logical, be the bigger person—even when it hurt.

The one who thought if you just loved harder, communicated better, or waited long enough, it would finally be enough.

 

That survival mode worked back then. But now?​